🎄Typical Christmas Gifting Etiquette for Families of Nannies & Doulas
The holidays are all about connection, gratitude, and showing appreciation for the people who make life brighter — and for many families, that includes their nanny. Whether your nanny has been part of your daily routine for years or joined your family recently, the Christmas season is a perfect time to say “thank you” in a thoughtful, meaningful way.
Here’s a look at what’s considered typical — and truly appreciated — when it comes to gifting your nanny for the holidays.
💛 The Classic Bonus
For most families, the most common way to show appreciation is through a holiday bonus. A week’s pay is considered standard for full-time nannies, though the exact amount can vary based on your nanny’s role, hours, and length of employment.
If a full week’s pay isn’t possible, any bonus amount paired with a kind note of appreciation is still incredibly meaningful. What matters most is the intention behind it.
🎁 A Thoughtful Gift
Alongside (or instead of) a bonus, many families give a small, personal gift to make their nanny feel extra special. A few ideas include:
A cozy blanket, candle, or self-care set
A gift card to their favorite café or store
A custom mug or tote with the kids’ artwork
A framed photo of your nanny with the children
Personal touches go a long way — especially when the children are involved in choosing or creating the gift!
🌿 For Temporary or Backup Nannies
If you’ve worked with a temporary or backup nanny this season, a physical gift isn’t required but always appreciated. Something as simple as a handwritten thank-you card, a small token (like a holiday treat), or positive feedback shared with your agency can make a big difference.
Even a quick note expressing gratitude for their flexibility and reliability goes a long way.
✨ Keep It Genuine
Every family-nanny relationship is unique, and there’s no strict rulebook for holiday giving. What matters most is that your gesture feels sincere. Whether it’s a generous bonus, a heartfelt card, or something handmade by the kids — the goal is to let your nanny know how much their care and commitment mean to your family.
🎅 Wrapping Up the Season with Gratitude
This holiday season, a little thoughtfulness can go a long way in making your nanny feel appreciated, seen, and part of your family’s festive cheer. However you choose to celebrate, remember that kindness and gratitude are always the best gifts of all.
Harmony Baby Concierge celebrates the incredible caregivers who make family life brighter every day. Wishing our nannies, families, and team a wonderful, joy-filled holiday season! 💜
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